Big version 'Da ge' born on 15 Sept 2007

Small Version 'Siao Di' born on 26 Sept 2008

HOT HOT From the Oven.......

Yeah, finally my naughty nephew had reached upon this beautiful world earlier on ard 9plus in the evening, almost 13 hrs of labour pain...ah yi is going to smack yr little butt tmrw when I see u....LOLz

My dearest er jie, well done lei, heard that the last 30 mins u push all the way ar.... & didi looks like U this time.

I think all 1st time Fathers that understand English should read this article esp to my brother in law & I personally think u should seek professional help lo..


extracted from Mother & Baby, feb 2004

According to some experts, PND is a major unrecognised contributor to the breakdown of many relationships.
Experts advise putting off decisions about separation until after the PND has lifted as many marriages tend to stabilise once the PND has been treated.
Recent research has discovered that 3% of fathers are prone to PND too, especially if their wife is depressed.

The following factors can influence the risk of PND among fathers:

Concurrent stressful events
Limited social interaction and support
The quality of your marriage
Older age or being a first-time parent
Lack of exposure or information

As a new father, you will need to look after your own emotional and physical well-being, especially if your spouse is suffering from PND. Make sure that you have some time to yourself aside from your career and family, and try to maintain a few of your favourite interests and hobbies.

Spend time with close friends and talk to about your feelings and concerns.
If all else fails, consult your doctor or seek out professional help.


-----About 1/10 mothers develop PND, a kind of depression that usually develops within 12 months of childbirth. Symtoms depend on the severity of the depression but might include feelings of inadequacy and guilt, tearfulness, panic attacks and sleeping difficulties.
A mother who is suffering from PND may withdraw herself from everyone, including her baby and spouse.
If you feel that you are grapping with PND in your relationship:

Find out as much as you can about PND and how you can help your wife.
As her husband, you play a pivotal role in her recovery even though the support of family members and close friends are cruicial.

Accept that PND may be causing your marital problems and not the other way around.
Keep the lines of communication open withou taking each other's moods or criticisms too personally.

Seek out appropriate stress management techniques, such as exercise or meditation.

Try to arrange for at least an occasional night out together away from your baby.
Seek professional help.
PND is both manageable and curable. Remember that the great strain on your life and relationship is part and parcel of new parenthood.
Both you and your wife may need some extra help in the begining, but as time passes and you become more adjusted, life will gradually return to normal.

HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY to Brayden

Yeah, Brayden is 1 year old & 1 more month, he will be 大哥 le & i'll be An yi again lo....

Just can't wait...

Do i look cute with this hair style?

Just now i asked Quinn if she wants to take picture & she nod her head. Quickly she ran to the table where the camera are & she even pointed to me where she wants to stand & then quickly run to the place & position there until i say 'cheese' ! Wahahaaaa....

Big version 'Da ge' born on 15 Sept 2007

Small Version 'Siao Di' born on 26 Sept 2008

HOT HOT From the Oven.......

Yeah, finally my naughty nephew had reached upon this beautiful world earlier on ard 9plus in the evening, almost 13 hrs of labour pain...ah yi is going to smack yr little butt tmrw when I see u....LOLz

My dearest er jie, well done lei, heard that the last 30 mins u push all the way ar.... & didi looks like U this time.

I think all 1st time Fathers that understand English should read this article esp to my brother in law & I personally think u should seek professional help lo..


extracted from Mother & Baby, feb 2004

According to some experts, PND is a major unrecognised contributor to the breakdown of many relationships.
Experts advise putting off decisions about separation until after the PND has lifted as many marriages tend to stabilise once the PND has been treated.
Recent research has discovered that 3% of fathers are prone to PND too, especially if their wife is depressed.

The following factors can influence the risk of PND among fathers:

Concurrent stressful events
Limited social interaction and support
The quality of your marriage
Older age or being a first-time parent
Lack of exposure or information

As a new father, you will need to look after your own emotional and physical well-being, especially if your spouse is suffering from PND. Make sure that you have some time to yourself aside from your career and family, and try to maintain a few of your favourite interests and hobbies.

Spend time with close friends and talk to about your feelings and concerns.
If all else fails, consult your doctor or seek out professional help.


-----About 1/10 mothers develop PND, a kind of depression that usually develops within 12 months of childbirth. Symtoms depend on the severity of the depression but might include feelings of inadequacy and guilt, tearfulness, panic attacks and sleeping difficulties.
A mother who is suffering from PND may withdraw herself from everyone, including her baby and spouse.
If you feel that you are grapping with PND in your relationship:

Find out as much as you can about PND and how you can help your wife.
As her husband, you play a pivotal role in her recovery even though the support of family members and close friends are cruicial.

Accept that PND may be causing your marital problems and not the other way around.
Keep the lines of communication open withou taking each other's moods or criticisms too personally.

Seek out appropriate stress management techniques, such as exercise or meditation.

Try to arrange for at least an occasional night out together away from your baby.
Seek professional help.
PND is both manageable and curable. Remember that the great strain on your life and relationship is part and parcel of new parenthood.
Both you and your wife may need some extra help in the begining, but as time passes and you become more adjusted, life will gradually return to normal.

HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY to Brayden

Yeah, Brayden is 1 year old & 1 more month, he will be 大哥 le & i'll be An yi again lo....

Just can't wait...

Do i look cute with this hair style?

Just now i asked Quinn if she wants to take picture & she nod her head. Quickly she ran to the table where the camera are & she even pointed to me where she wants to stand & then quickly run to the place & position there until i say 'cheese' ! Wahahaaaa....