Few day ago, came to know a friend of mine going to take it away, I didnt know how to change her mind and she insisted her way.....I hope she'll not regret for what she going to do because If I were her a year plus ago, I would regret because I have a loveble girl now!!
Something to share......really sad especially when baby going to due soon....
We do experienced such thing before and we saw him.....but he was laying there motionless...
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Dear all,
I just want to share the story of what happened to me for the past few days.
I felt baby movement everyday until on tue when i realised that there wasn't any significant movement.
The next day I could see the tummy move and felt like a contraction and wasn't like the normal baby kick.
The next day I decided to see my gynae as I wasn't comfortable with it. Went to the clinic and waited for almost 3 hours for my turn.
The clinic nurse brought me up to listen to heart beat.
I asked her "Is it okay?" she kept quite and asked another person to try. I asked again and the lady was silent.
I panicked when a third person came to try and another console me by saying that perhaps the machine is spoilt. Then they said gunae wants to see me.Gynae asked, "What happened to you? Did you fall down, bleed, etc...? "
I said NO. Laid down to have ultrasound, he said what happened... The baby has marcerated, seems like 2 days ago. At that moment I realised my precious baby is gone.
She was at 31 weeks and he categorised it as stillbirth not miscarriage. We arranged for induced natural delivery the next day (Sat).
Had 1 tablet inserted at 10.30am and 2.30pm. Very painful, especially when they have to check how much I have dilated. Admited into Mt A at 3.30pm and 3rd tablet inserted at 8 pm, thereafter 1 tablet every 3 hours.
It causes diarrhoea and severe back pain. Total had 8 tablets induced and cervix was 3-4 cm (It was Sun 3pm).
Pain got worse and at 5plus had urge to pass urine and motion. When pushed i thot felt baby's head. Asked for epidural but it was too late to administer. Baby girl was out after 3 pushes at 17.45pm, delivery of placenta and cleaning of womb were terrible as I could feel every single movement/touch.
Held my baby and she looked so normal except there wasnt crying, cord was not tangle up.
It was so sad and I was too tired and numb in feeling to cry. My husband cried...
When it was time to leave the deliver ward I said goodbye to our girl and both of us burst into tears again. We dont know the reason why she died so suddenly and is still waiting for the post mortem report.
Hopefully that will provide answers and closure to this.....I guess an advise to all future mothers---Let's be extra KS when it comes to pregnancy. better call and consult the doctor on every small matter and when our motherly instinct tellls us that something is not right.
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Something to share about abortion.....
- PREBORN - 11 WEEKS AFTER CONCEPTION
- HEART IS BEATING (SINCE 18-25 DAYS)
- BRAIN WAVES HAVE BEEN RECORDED AT 40 DAYS
- THE BABY SQUINTS, SWALLOWS, AND CAN MAKE A FIST
- THE BABY HAS FINGERPRINTS AND CAN KICK
- THE BABY IS SENSITIVE TO HEAT, TOUCH, LIGHT AND NOISE
- THE BABY SUCKS HIS OR HER THUMB
- ALL BODY SYSTEMS ARE WORKING
- THE BABY WEIGHS ABOUT 1 OUNCE AND IS 2 1/2 TO 3 INCHES LONG
- THE BABY COULD FIT COMFORTABLY IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND
Will she regret ??
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